BEAUTY: OUTSIDE IN OR INSIDE OUT?

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Ok...so this might be a very interesting topic TO BE DISCUSSED. Especially for girls....:P

How can you judge someone's beauty? To me beauty is very subjective. Why? Let's give a simple explanation. Some might say that Megan Fox is totally sexy and hot....she's screaming with HOTNESS!!! But some might say, she's nothing when compared to Taylor Swift!! She's a true beauty while others might say, "Nah they both are fine. Nothing so special".

SO, WHAT MAKES THEM BEAUTIFUL 

Is it because of their thick make-up? or is it because of their sexy clothing? or is it just some sort of fate that you like them? hahaha...or is it because of their personalities that shines through? emm..

A friend told me that now, people only look at the outside appearance first before they actually do look inside somebody's true nature. Well, I have to say I agree to that statement but not fully. Well, you see, yes it is true that when we meet somebody the first thing that we will be looking for is their appearance. Whether they are handsome, smart, skinny, fat and so on. Then, we will have the tendency to judge and evaluate them immediately. A simple and common example: Fat person with baggy clothes walks in a room. Straight away we will think that the person is lazy, eats a lot, unproductive, passive and everything that is bad. Whereas when a handsome looking guy walks in, everyone will be charmed by whatever he says even though it meant nothing.

           Clear explanation, the world is cruel? Only well-looking person will get a better treatment than others? Well, think again people. Just for how long that handsome guy will get the so-called "special" treatment if he does not perform well in his work? I don't think it will get that long to take for people to hate him and bad-mouthed about him. True? But if the fat person do a tremendously awesome brilliant work, wouldn't people slowly appreciate him better than the previous one? So, all and all, the world is not cruel but the people are for labeling people too soon. But hey, it's our nature right? All and all the handsome guy only have a slight advantage earlier on but then who wins the overall game? :P

           Hence, to all LADIES!!!!!

         In some point of our lives, we may and will feel that we have and need to look hot and sexy all the time so that people will notice our existence. Thus, we tend to dress exaggeratedly and put on heavy make-up just to show that you too can be beautiful like Megan Fox and Taylor Swift. STOP IT.  What's the point of doing that? Do you want people to love you because of your looks? If so, then you are wasting the time of your life doing that. Including, wasting MONEY!! Make people fall in love with you with who you truly are. To me, everyone is special. Everyone has their own special features, you just have to search for it and then SHINES THROUGH...

         And do not feel disheartened or down if your friends have their own special ones and yet you still haven't. Yours is till searching for you. REMEMBER:

A WOMAN IS LIKE AN APPLE. THE HIGHER THE APPLE, THE HARDER THE MAN TO GRAB THE APPLE. ONCE HE ALREADY GOT THE APPLE, HE WILL TRULY APPRECIATE AND NEVER LET GO OF THE APPLE, REMEMBERING ALL THE TROUBLES AND HARDSHIPS THAT HE JUST WENT THROUGH TO GET IT. ONLY THE BEST CAN PICK THE APPLES AT THE TOP.


~stay strong and keep on doing your thang....lol~